At times we all focus on or act out thoughts and emotions that stem from something we believe to be the truth about ourselves, even though it isn’t. For example, if a child is told they are stupid, ugly, worthless, etc., they will believe that is who they are, even though it is a lie, and not the truth. To some extent ,we all have negative patterns that have been set up in our lives as a result of the emotions attached to our false, negative, beliefs. This is why we must go back to undo the wrong thinking, which we have brought into our present. First, there must be times for self-reflection, as we deal with our raw emotions and the untruths we have embraced. Many need help during this process, (pastor, counselor, friend) to push forward through the challenges and work of tearing down. After the emotions are felt and the Holy Spirit has replaced the lies, with His loving, accepting truth; it is time to let go and put the past away. Now, it is God’s turn to build us up, creating a new and better way of life, and revealing His unconditional love to us. It’s a new day! So, as we continue to grow and move forward emotionally and spiritually-don’t give up-GOD wants to tear down the old so He can build us up, and bring harmony and peace to our souls.
Colossians3:8, 10, 12-14 amp. Bible